PREACHED:OL,7-11-04,AM

 

“THE PROMISE OF GOD’S FORGIVENESS”

 

INTRODUCTION:

 

   “I forgive…I really, really forgive! And I promise you, that I’ll never hold it against you again!”

 

A.     What comes to your mind when you hear that statement?

 

·        Great relief?

·        The lifting of an overpowering burden?

·        A sense of unbridled gratitude?

·        A final release from the prison of a guilty conscience?

·        The renewal of the bonds of love?

·        An opportunity to start over?

·        A resolve to serve?

 

B.     What is forgiveness?

 

1.     One psychologist defined it as “…surrendering my right to hurt you for hurting me.”

 

C.     As human beings and Christians, we often know intellectually that we ought to forgive, but our emotions don’t always cooperate.

 

1.     Often we hear someone say, “Well, I can forgive most things, but that’s something I could never forgive!”

 

2.     A wife brought up a mistake a husband had made and he was very unhappy about it:

 

·        “Why do you keep talking about that? I thought you said you had forgiven me and forgotten it!”

 

a.     The wife snapped back:

 

·        “I have forgiven and forgotten. But I don’t want YOU to forget that I have forgiven and forgotten!”

 

3.     I read about a man who was dying, and was urged to reconcile with a neighbor who

had formerly been his friend, but against whom he had held a grudge for many years.

 

a.     The neighbor came over to the bedside of the sick man and mutual forgiveness was express-ed. But as he started to leave, the dying man struggled and sat up and called out, “But remem-ber, John, if I get well this doesn’t count!”

 

C.     Why is so difficult for us to genuinely forgive?

 

1.     Because it calls for consummate unselfishness on the part of the offended, and the relinquishing of rights and replacing them with a willingness to grant favor to one who has deeply offended us!

 

    But that is exactly what God has promised that is will do for us!

A.     The prophet Micah ends his message with these words:

 

1.     “Who is a God like you, pardoning iniquity and passing over transgression for the remnant of his inheritance? He does not retain his anger forever, because he delights in steadfast love. He will again have compassion on us; he will tread our iniquities under foot. You will cast our sins into the depths of the sea.”

 

a.     As the song beautifully tells us, “Deeper than the ocean and wider than the sea, is the grace of the Savior for sinners like me…”

 

B.     Heb 8:12 (Quoting Jer 31:34), “I will be merciful toward their iniquities and I will remember their sins no more.”

 

1.     God is faithful to keep his promises:

               

a.     Deut 15:6; Rom 4:20, 21; I John 1:9

 

2.     What is involved in fully appreciating this wonderful promise and appropriating it to my own possession?

 

DISCUSSION:

 

Œ   We must fully grasp our status before God without this promise!

 

        A.     Mankind is afflicted by a fatal flaw!

 

1.     Because it seems so small to us, we don’t always see the gravity of it!

 

a.     Joe Barnett told the story of watching his wife working under a bright light to remove a small splinter from the finger of their youngest son.

 

1)     Finally, she got it out, bathing it in alcohol as the child screamed loudly!

 

 

2)     He asked her, “Why all the fuss over such a little splinter?”

 

3)     She reminded him,

 

“Infection… finger… could affect…whole body…”

 

4)     But the child never fully understood, he just hopped down and went back out to play, as Barnett said, “…probably to pick up another splinter…”

 

b.     He made this application: “Sin is a wound like that. It’s poisonous. Unless sin is removed from your life, it will cause an infection leading to all sorts of problems—ultimately even spiritual death…”

 

c.      John Wayne movie: “Horse Soldiers” –

 

1)     Soldier wounded by the ax… blood poison!

 

                                1)     Rom 3:23

                                        Rom 6:23

                               

B.     The result of not treating the disease of sin is: “…flaming fire inflicting vengeance on those who do not  know God and on those who do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus. They will suffer punishment of eternal destruction, away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of his might…”  (II Thes 1:8,9).

 

B.     Without the promise we stand not under mercy and grace but under the penalty of justice—hell!

 

1)     We all realize that justice demands the extraction of the full penalty of the law!

 

a)     Lady Justice - scales in her hands weighing the evidence is blindfolded!

 

b)     Only innocence can bring freedom from perfect justice, and none of us are free from sin!

 

c)     That’s why Paul cried out concerning his sin, “Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver…?””  (Rom 7:24)

 

   We must fully appreciate the price paid for the promise!

 

A.     Rom 3:23-26. “…for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a propitiation (peace offering) by his blood, to be received by faith. This was to show God’s righteousness because in his forbearance he had passed over former sins. It was to show his righteousness at the present time, so that he might be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus.”

 

1.     We don’t deserve forgiveness; we deserve condemnation!

 

2.     God is ultimately just and justice demands we pay the penalty for sin!

 

3.     But God desires to justify but he can’t and be true to his just nature without the penalty being paid!

 

·        “Just-as-if-I’d”…

 

4.     Christ was sent by God to pay the penalty! He took our place when he died! He bore the guilt of our sin!

 

a.     II Cor 5:21.

 

b.     Isa 53:4-6. “Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement of our peace, and with his stripes we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned everyone to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all… v 11. “Out of the anguish of his soul, he shall see and be satisfied…”

                       

1)     Again, we remember the words of the old hymn, “I stood condemned to die, but Jesus freely took my place. He bore it all that I might live!”

 

2)     I John 2:1, 2. “…Jesus Christ the righteous. He is the propitiation (peace offering) for our sins, and not for our only but also for the sins of the whole world.”

Ž   We must accept the promise on God’s terms!

 

A.     It is God that we have offended by our sins, and it is God to whom we must be reconciled!

 

B.     On Pentecost the Jews recognized their sin and guilt before God:

 

1.     Acts 2:37,38. “Now when they heard this (that they had crucified the Messiah) they were cut to the heart, and said to Peter and the rest of the apostles, ‘Brothers, what shall be do!’”

 

C.     When Saul of Tarsus, came face to face with his rebellion and sin on the road to Damascus, he cried out, “What shall I do, Lord?” (Acts 22:10).

 

D.     When the Philippian jailor faced his own mortality and the power of God, he asked Paul and Silas, “Sirs, What must I do to be saved?”  (Acts 16:30)

 

E.     They all wanted to know what they needed to do be forgiven of the consequences of their sin!

 

1.     They knew they couldn’t save themselves!

 

2.     They placed themselves in the hands of God!

 

3.     When the preacher told them how to respond by faith to God, they didn’t hesitate, they responded immediately!

 

                        a.     Acts 2:38, 41

                        b.     Acts 22:16

Acts 9:18b. “…then he arose and was baptized…”

c.      Acts 16:33. “And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their wounds; and he was baptized at once…”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   We must fully appreciate the motivation of the promise!

 

A.     You see, we are entering a covenant relationship with God, where we become his children!

 

                1.     Gal 6:26, 27.

 

a.     Thus, it is a covenant of love!

 

                                1)     John 3:16

I John 3:1. “See what kind of love the Father has given…”    

 

        B.     We see the heart of God in Jesus:

 

                1.     Matt 11:28-30

                        Matt 23:37

 

C.     How should that Divine Love affect us?

 

1.     II Cor 5:13, 14. “If we are beside ourselves it is for God; if we are in our right mind, it is for you. For the love of God controls us, because we have

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; and he died for all, that those who live might no longer

live for themselves but for him who for their sakes died and was raised.”

 

a.     As another old song rings out, “Greater love there could not be! Jesus died for you and me! In our hearts, he would reign!”

 

CONCLUSION:

 

   Forgiveness, then, is an attitude of heart which restores the offended to the former state and affections of the offended.

 

A.     To forgive is to bury the matter and treat it as though it has not been committed.

 

1.     That’s the heart of the statement, “To err is human and to forgive is Divine.”

 

a.     We are never more like our Heavenly Father than when we forgive others as He has forgiven us!

o       Eph 4:32.